What is it: Love or Business Agreement?
Some people talk a lot about love. They are sure that they know what it is. And if you ask them about their relationship they will answer you: “It is wonderful. We love each other so much.” But jet, when you look at their relationship, you won’t notice any interest in each other. Yes, it is wonderful to leave in such a relationship: no arguments, no misunderstandings. Each of partners leaves his own life, independently and as he/she wants. Then a question arises by itself: why to be together if there is no deep emotional connection? You can share accommodations with your parents, friends or just leave by yourself. Such people don’t understand what it is commitment in a relationship. A woman maybe happy to stay at home and be a housewife her partner is happy to come home and have a dinner ready and his shirts ironed. Till each of them does his/her bit, to follow the agreement they stay together and there are no arguments. But if one of them would start to ‘shake the boat’ and refuse to do usual stuff then they are in trouble. Such feelings as love or friendship one can win only by giving positive emotions, care and understanding. If the process of giving and taking is only on physical level between both partners then their relationship is a business agreement and not about love.