How to Criticize Right
Some people get very annoyed if somebody says them that they have done something wrong. Deep inside maybe they understand and accept this criticism but their reaction on it ranges from simply denying to aggressive attack. Why they act like this?
First thing first it could be pride that doesn’t let them admit their fault in public. But under deep shell of negative outer emotions (arrogance, rudeness, and aggressiveness) lies insecurity. People who cannot accept advice or critics suffer from low self-esteem. Now when you know this, don’t run to them with this cheerful news that you know what their problem is. Next time show more understanding, trying to give advice or criticizing, think about right place and time, the tone of your voice and how would you phrase carefully the criticism without hurting more that insecure person. Understand that he/she already suffers from lots of fears and worries and with your critics you can hurt them even more. Trying to toughen such person you will lose them like your friend.