Circles of Love

Have you ever thought what your strength points by opposite gender are? Maybe you have beautiful body or charming smile or you cook tasty food or earn lots of money? How does it happen that we attract whom we attract und why?

To my mind, love, as any other emotion first appears in our thought, and as if we can change our thoughts so we can change whom we love. Scientists proved that we find more attractive people who show their interest in us. And if to think carefully it is very often shared similarities that make people closer to each other. We love a part of ourselves in a partner and cannot imagine loving somebody different from him/her.

At some stage we don’t feel attracted any longer by our partner because we have changed and similarities between us disappeared. We cannot stay with a person so different and distant from us now. And we are looking for another best part. This proves that love comes and goes with our past and future identities.