Circles of Love
Have you ever thought what your strength points by opposite gender are? Maybe you have beautiful body or charming smile or you cook tasty food or earn lots of money? How does it happen that we attract whom we attract und why?
To my mind, love, as any other emotion first appears in our thought, and as if we can change our thoughts so we can change whom we love. Scientists proved that we find more attractive people who show their interest in us. And if to think carefully it is very often shared similarities that make people closer to each other. We love a part of ourselves in a partner and cannot imagine loving somebody different from him/her.
At some stage we don’t feel attracted any longer by our partner because we have changed and similarities between us disappeared. We cannot stay with a person so different and distant from us now. And we are looking for another best part. This proves that love comes and goes with our past and future identities.
June 6th, 2008 at 12:43 am
Very good point. However as people stay together, they also learn to form their evolving personalities in tune with their partner (each partner influences the other and this causes them to become more alke). Therefore, as long as they communicate and understand each other intimately, there is a strong probability that their growth will compliment each other and their love will grow stronger.