New Relationship without Old Mistakes
Nearly every woman has a definite set of ideas about what is her future partner should be like. The older they get the more difficult it gets to break these stereotypes. She just sticks to her ‘ideal’ or what she thinks to be an ‘ideal’ and never questions her subconscious choice. Unfortunately, her attitude or model of behavior with men could be the course of failure to build a happy relationship.
The problem here is that that she had probably never analyzed her behavior in the past and never admitted her possible responsibility for relationship failure. Why to do this? Well, if you admit the truth to yourself it could be very helpful to realize what you’ve done wrong and how not to do it again. This process could be very painful and unpleasant. Most of us would need the help of a good friend or psychoanalyst.
The second big challenge is to find the strength to accept the truth and not to get angry and fall into denial. People who know themselves what is good or what is bad for them find it very difficult to take somebody’s advice without hesitation. And, finally, when you realize that it is not always only them to blame you can make any relationship that you go in to work.