Man of Your Dreams
Some women have a strong believe that woman is a diamond, and a man should be there to ensure her existence. Therefore she is not aiming for career realization, and perceives work as means to find a rich and caring husband, the ideal image which is always kept in mind.
The image of how should be the desired partner surely has every human being. But obsession with an idea of “Mr. Right” is an illusion that poisons life. You all the time compare “Him” to others and, of course, “He” would do everything better.
This prevents you to evaluate others men good points. Myth of the love which comes only once prevents to forge new ties after the previous failed. Believe that each of us has his/her own fate is dangerous, because it will completely remove the responsibility for our lives.
You do not imagine other scenarios, do not plan alternative routes. And become very vulnerable and dependent. The result is disappointment.
Love can be different, it happens not once and it can last for lifetime!
Do not wait till your partner make your dreams come true. Very often we endow our partner with those qualities that we admire, but which we lack. Therefore, the simplest way is to live in reality and become yourself the person of your dreams.
Do not refuse to drink coffee with a man just because he is not like your ideal. Practice shows that meeting with your prince does not guarantee future happiness with him. Therefore, take for a rule to pay attention to all the best that is available in person near to you and turn off the calculator, which matches your ideal and your new acquaintance. Trust your feelings instead: if you’re comfortable with him and interested, there is no need to get upset at the fact that everything goes not like in your ideal scenario.