Love Yourself
Energy which surrounds the person who loves himself carries positive, healing, attracting love of other people charge. The more you love yourself the more you attract people who love you. You should learn how to treat yourself good. Remember that your wishes, if they do no harm to anybody including yourself, are holy wishes. There is no need to suppress these desires. We were taught to love others and to love ourselves was considered to be selfish. But it is impossible to love others, if you do not love yourself. If someone loves another person more than him/herself and feels like a victim, make lots of sacrifices then here it goes not about love. This is about guilt, fear not to achieve your best, fear of loneliness, inability to live with in harmony with you. So, think about your relationship and answer yourself does it give you energy to achieve your life goals or makes you feel like a victim? In the second case you should free yourself from that feeling, listen to your wishes and do what is the best for yourself. Only in this way you can be happy and make happy your partner.